Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Christmas Eve 2011

Christmastime this year was amazing.  The big boys understand and grasp more and more with each year and Luke was at such a fun age this Christmas.  We wondered how he would do with all of the decorations but he surprised us and left it all alone.  I was afraid it would be a constant battle... other people were only decorating the top half of their tree but I thought while decorating, "He'll just have to learn."  We didn't change anything, nor have we with any of our toddlers, and he did so great!!  He was in awe the first time he saw the tree... getting super close so he could see everything but not touching anything.  Our biggest tradition that we do from year to year is our Jesse Tree.  The boys memorized the stories the first time we went through it a few years ago and since then they learn more and more details of each story.  It simply amazes us to hear both of the big boys going through each ornament and being able to tell each story with such detail.  It is something we all look forward to and thanks to Nana it is what keeps our focus on the big picture, on the entire story, from beginning to end of what our loving Father had planned all along.  From creation, to the flood, to the ram being the sacrifice for Isaac, to David being anointed king, to baby Jesus coming to earth so that one day he would pay the ultimate price so that we wouldn't have to.  I can't think of a better way to spend the first 25 days of December then this, a way to really teach the boys about the prophecies and have them connect the dots of all the stories and really realize just how much He was thinking about us when He put everything in to motion so many years ago!

Another tradition that is very important to us is our Christmas Eve tradition.  Christmas Eve is fun and we want the boys to have lots of excitement but we never want that excitement to overshadow what we are really celebrating.  So, Christmas Eve isn't about getting excited about Santa coming, it's about going to church to worship our Lord and Savior, it's about being thankful for God sending his Son to the earth as a baby so that one day He could die for our sins. It's about family.  This year we had Charles' parents and his brother, Brian, and his family join us for our Christmas Eve Candlelight service at Shandon and then we all came back to our house for our traditional Italian dinner.  Dinner cooked while we were at church and we came home to a house smelling so good and food ready to eat.  The cousins enjoyed sitting at the kids table while the adults (plus Luke) sat at the big table.  After dinner we sang Happy Birthday to Jesus and the kids each enjoyed a cupcake.  Then Jacob went through and told everyone about the meaning of the ornaments on the Jesse Tree.
The kids enjoyed exchanging gifts and then we attempted at a cousins picture.  Epic fail... at least they are all in the picture, right?? :)
Once everyone left to go home it was our time as a family to finish up our Christmas Eve traditions.  We always do our "Santa" stuff first and then finish the night by reading the story of that first Christmas.  The boys opened their Christmas pajamas, got changed, put cookies and Egg Nog out for Santa, put out our reindeer food and hung our key on the door. 
Once that was all done we snuggled together and read the story of that first Christmas.  We enjoyed our time to snuggle, talk and answer questions for the boys.  Then we said bedtime prayers and the boys went to bed.  Because they are so good at night now, I think we waited all of five minutes before setting up the train and putting out all the gifts.  We didn't have to worry about the cookies because in the span of about 30 seconds while we were in the back putting the boys in bed Sam took care of that.  I came out to her gobbling up the last crumb :) 
This year we didn't have any big items that needed to be put together and that was really nice.  The boys got a few things to sit in while they read or play games and Luke got a new swing for his play set.  Our work was done and we were able to relax the rest of the night!!  Christmas Eve was such a great day for us as a family. We were so thankful for Charles' side of the family joining us this year and it made Christmas Eve 2011 that much more special!! :)

Chase's 5th Birthday Fun

I cannot believe that we are over half way through January and I am just now getting around to blogging about the fun we had for Chase's birthday and Christmas.  I can't believe how busy, I mean slack, I have been.  Don't get me wrong, life with three boys is always busy.  There's always something that needs to be done, someone who needs me or tummies that are hungry.  I'm thankful for the things that keep us busy but sometimes a little down time, enough time to get some blogging done, is nice.  I threw dinner in the crock pot this morning so this afternoon all I thought about was resting a little and blogging a lot! :)  ... Now, time to get caught up!!

Chase's birthday was so much fun this year.  I decided that this year, and probably for most birthdays from here on out, we would do something fun with family.  This year for Chase's 5th birthday we decided to give Chuck E Cheese a try. 
It was SO much fun and so perfect for what we were doing.  I booked the party first thing in the morning so we all arrived around 10:00.  There was no one there.  It was our party and one other small party so we practically had the place to ourselves.  The workers were there waiting for us and we had one worker who did everything for us. 
We had some of our most favorite people there to play and celebrate Chase's birthday.  My parents came from Hilton Head, Aunt Anna and Uncle Jake came from Florence and of course we had our Columbia family there too.  Chase was so excited to see everyone and just couldn't wait for the fun to begin!!  We started out playing a few games.  We had a TON of tokens.  Booking a party the first time slot automatically gave us 100 extra tokens and then the tokens that came with the party package.  We were set for lots and lots of games.  I think the adults enjoyed it just as much as the kids did! :)  My dad and Charles really got into a few games and to say they are both competitive is an understatement!!  It was a lot of fun!!
After a little while of game playing they were ready to bring the pizza out for the kids.  They ate a little pizza and then Chuck E Cheese himself joined the party and it was so great.  Chase's reaction to seeing Chuck E was priceless... it makes me so anxious to take him to Disney World one day.  We all enjoyed the show where they made Chase the center of attention and then enjoyed cake and ice cream.
Presents were last and then time to use up the rest of the tokens.  Chase loved his time at Chuck E Cheese and can't wait to go back one day.

On his actual birthday we planned to have two of his little school buddies over that evening for pizza and a movie.  We woke up and made Chase a special birthday breakfast.  He got to open one more present from Mom and Dad and it was Cars 2, the movie he and his buddies were looking forward to watching that night.
Chase had some special one on one time that afternoon with Daddy.  They went out to lunch and did a few special things together.  His little friends from school showed up just before dinnertime that night and the weather was nice enough for them to play outside.  They had a blast running around and playing together.  It was a nice filler while we were waiting on the pizza!
Then they came in, all washed their hands and got to the table just in time for cousin Emma and the pizza to show up!!  They all enjoyed their dinner as well as singing Happy Birthday and eating cupcakes.  Chase opened the presents his friends brought him and he couldn't have been more thrilled with what each of them picked out for him. 
Once the presents were opened we settled down, turned the movie on and popped some popcorn.  Chase, Brandon and Mazzy didn't seem to move for the entire movie.  They were all so into it.  Jacob and Emma on the other hand enjoyed playing during the movie.  When the movie was over I took Chase and his buddies home.  It was the perfect little celebration and I see many more of these types of birthday "parties" in our future! :)

Chase has changed so much the last few months and he has really seemed to grow up a lot.  For all those mommies out there who are about to pull their hair out because of the three and four year old behavior, HANG IN THERE!!!  It does get better!  I know we'll still have our challenging times with Chase and we'll still go in and out of phases that I will pray go away quickly, they change, mature and grow up so much around their fifth birthday.  He is such a smart, considerate, kind, and loving boy and I can't wait to see what this year holds for him.  Kindergarten for one and only the Lord knows what else! :)